LADIES!!!!
Tired of meaningless relationships?
Exhausted to date losers?
Are you a good candidate looking to find THE ONE?
If you are busy like a modern SACHIKA WOMAN,
chances are you don't have time for...BULLSHIT.
Well here are 5 ways to attract a GOOD MAN:
1) CONFIDENCE
Self-love is everything. If you don't love and believe in yourself, no one will. Before you fall in love with a man, you need to be in love with yourself, first and foremost. Respect yourself so much you will accept nothing less than what you deserve. How you perceive yourself is everything. Know that you are the best and walk with your head high with confidence. When a woman values herself, she sets the standard for other men to treat her the way she wants to be treated. Therefore the first step towards finding a good man, is to KNOW AND BELIEVE YOU DESERVE ONE. Have faith and CONFIDENCE in yourself.
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| In addition to being beautiful, Marilyn Monroe exudes confidence. |
2) YOUR IMAGE
We won't lie to you. Men are visual. Every man wants a beautiful arm-piece my his side. Eat well, work out, take your vitamins, drink lots of water, sleep enough. Take care of YOURSELF, your body, your skin, your nails, your hair. Every bit of you is part of you. A well-kept woman shows that she takes cares of herself, that she values herself. Be the best that you can be to attract the best that you can attract. You can't expect to have the best if you aren't at your best. Perception is everything. A good woman knows how to dress with CLASS. Too much skin screams something else. Too many layers on, screams low self-esteem. A good balance is important. A good man wants a classy woman by his side that he can proudly introduce to his mother. Make yourself presentable!!!
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| You can be both sexy and classy. |
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| Obama is a classy woman deserving to be First Lady |
3) YOUR ENTOURAGE
They say you are who you hang out with. Who are the top 5 people you are around the most? Make sure you surround yourself with people that are like you: respectable, valuable, classy, etc. When a man has an interest in you, he will observe your surrounding. Are you surrounded by gold diggers, cougars, one-night stand type of women? Are you hanging at the right places? Don't forget that at any given moment, you can proceed with a "cleaning." Make sure you surround surround yourself with people that represent you well both emotionally and mentally. A good man will pay attention to your "entourage".
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| Who are your closest friends? Make sure you all share common values. They are a reflection of you. |
4) "THE GOODIES"
Every man wants instant gratification. A good man however, has already been through that "young phase" and seeks more than just instant gratification. Hold yourself with high regards and don't give in to temptation early on. A good man will wait, one, three, six or even one year before he lays the pipe! YES!!! If you are looking for a good man, you need the be a good woman. Studies have proven that men aren't inclined to take women who sleep with them on the very first date, seriously. Show him you are worth it and make him work for it. The higher the price, higher the value. A good man will wait. If he isn't willing to wait, he isn't looking for anything serious. Patience is a virtue only a good man has. Once you both are in a good place emotionally, the physical aspect will kick in and it will be...MAGICAL.
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| Give yourself to the right person, at the right time. |
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| Meagan Good & Devon Franklin made love for the first time on their wedding night. |
5) FRIENDS FIRST
Every great relationship starts with friendship. Watch how a man treats his friends, his family and the women around him. Watch his interactions. As his friend, you will learn so much more about him then as one of his concubines. A man is in his natural state of mind when there is friendship between the two of you. The two of you will develop a relationship based on honesty, loyalty and respect. Therefore, rule number 1, become friends first! A good man would never oppose to being your friend before dating you!
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| The best relationships start with friendship. |
