Showing posts with label twin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label twin. Show all posts

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Do twins have special powers/psychic connection?



Being a twin is something so ever special.


I was born a twin so I don't know any other way of living besides the one of being a twin. Sometimes I try to imagine how my life would be if I was "normal". Well, my life would be totally different.

We grew up and literally went through all stages in life almost at the same time: birth, first tooth, graduation, puberty, high school, first kiss, college, first love, etc. I was always ahead of my sister for most things ( I'm older by a hopping 5 minute!) and that is why we were basically always able to relate to one another. I do not recall a period in my life where my sister was not a part of it. She's everywhere throughout the album of my life from birth until now and needless to say that we have a very special bond.


We grew up in a large family of 6 siblings: us being the oldest, 2 younger sisters and identical twin brothers as well! Yup, two sets of identical twins in our family!! Our parents simply had the magic touch:) Although we are both close to our other sisters, it would be accurate to say that we are by far the closest. We have never experienced some sort of situation where I " strongly felt" something about my sister or vice versa but I would say that the closeness between us allows me to be able to read her mind and she can often read mine as well. We know each other so well that sometimes I just have to glance at her and I would know what she's thinking. Her body language, her facial expressions, I know her taste and opinions, etc. To me, she is easily readable. Most of the time, we answer the same things at the same time with the same tone...FREAKY! I hate it when it happens cause I know we sound so creepy! And so most of the time, we end up looking at each other and we both say " shut up! why do you have to say the same thing as me?" LOL, I'm sure we also look funny when that happens... Sometimes, we've had almost identical dreams...very strange as I think dreams mean a lot...





I believe this type of bond and closeness is the same type as certain couples (soulmates) or long-time best friends that are extremely close to one another can experience. Now thank god, nothing serious has ever happened to neither of us for me to able to say that I would feel something. However, I believe that I'm an intuitive person by nature and sometimes I do see things and have dreams that do happen and so, I wouldn't be surprised if I felt something in case of emergency. It is most likely more a question of connection and closeness rather than being a twin or not...I think.



Have you lived a psychic connection with someone you'd like to share?

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Have You Ever Dated a Twin?


Being an identical twin is simply a wonderful thing. From the moment we were born, we basically had a best friend, a favorite sister, a partner in crime: someone who goes through all the same stages in life at the same time.


According to everyone, that "someone" looks very much like me if not " identical" to me. Being a twin, I can tell you that we have huge differences and I am always still shocked to see that many people do not see those differences between us. It may sound weird but yes I think we look very different. Do you have a brother or a sister that everyone thinks looks very much like you, but you don't think so? That is a feeling I often experience. Truth is, not only are we very different physically but more importantly our personalities are as well. People just have to get passed the similarities and look for what makes us unique. After all, don't we all want to be unique?...


Well as a twin, I feel like I've often had the desire to really distinguish myself as an individual and not the pair. I always seek to feel special and unique and long to be appreciated for who I am ( yes ME, not my sister) as opposed to always be referred to " The Twins". Dating can be very complicated and awkward for twins (well for us it is!). Most of the times, I happened to be in a serious relationship whereas my twin sister, to be the single one. Fairly simple for all the guys who wanted to a date "us", they would automatically asked my sister out :P


"Now that we are both single, I wonder...how do men choose? "


Do they choose or do they get chosen? What goes through their mind? After all, they ultimately need to make a choice!!! Yup, the fact that we are twins does not mean that we come together as a package...oh no...!!! (BIG NO)


We want you to share your experience with us. Have you ever dated a twin? How did the selection happen? How was the relationship? Any confusion?