Here's your chance to ask us any crazy question you want and we promise to answer it. Questions posted only on our blog will be answered, not on facebook. You do not need to be a member of blogspot to post a question. Ahh this is going to get interesting.....
Men, take note!!! Here are the TOP TEN THINGS women notice about Men when we first meet them !!! Gentlemen, this is your time to pay close attention to the following details. Some can be changed, others cannot be changed. Remember, first impressions are not everything. As a matter of fact, personality & charisma in a man will have a lot to do even more with attraction then physical attributes or first impressions. However, you may want to leave a first good impression to gain the opportunity to court her...! A woman likes to feel great, make her feel GOOD! Just know that there are ways to make up for the points you can't change and at the end of the day, chemistry & the connection matter...but in no specific order, here are the 10 things women DO notice!
1. Height
Women notice height. Although a majority of women prefer tall men, some women prefer shorter or average-height men. Whether she likes them tall, average or short, a woman will always notice the height very early on. Studies have proven that most women are attracted to tall men. For other women, the man just has to be at least the same height or taller than them. But don't worry, height is not everything, it is just one among the many things women notice right away.
Women will notice the height immediately but things don't stop there.
It's up to you & your personality to bring her to new "heights".
2. Eyes
When looking at the face, women will be looking at your eyes first. The eyes tell all. It is one of the main physical attributes that women pay attention to. Each woman has her own preferences but the way you look into hers is important. Do you have a deep, intense, sweet or tender look in your eyes ???
Paul Walker'shas a genuine look in his eyes
3. Teeth/ Smile
A great smile with nice white teeth is always attractive. Studies have proven that individuals with nice smiles are considered more attractive. Oral & dental hygiene guys! Take care of those teeth! Most importantly, what comes out of our mouth will matter even more. Personality is key. Make her laugh.
Tom Cruise's infamous smile.
4. Manners/Chivalry
Mannerism & chivalry. Of course you must be a gentleman. Although some women will overlook this criteria, they will still notice if you are a gentleman or not. A man should be acting like " the man". The stronger one that can protect and provide security for her. Chilvary is inexpensive, remember, it's always ladiesfirst. Plain simple.
5. Body Frame
Women will most likely notice your body frame which means shoulders, arms and gut. Strong shoulders and arms are attractive physical qualities in a man. Some women don't mind men with a small or even big guts at all. Others prefer men with no guts. Either way, those physical attributes will be noticed although they may not be essential. Remember personality play a major role in men. Regardless of your body type, make sure your personality radiates.
Will Smith not only has a great frame but he has the personality to top it off.
6. Hands
After all, those will be the hands that will be touching her. Women do look at your hands. We don't expect you to get manicures but clean hands with clean nails are mandatory. No woman desires to be touched by filthy dirty hands !!! LOL. A strong grip is important and strong masculine hands are usually considered more attractive.
7. Voice
No matter how attractive a man is, a high-pitched annoying voice can ruin everything. A man with a nice deep voice is always sexier. Speech is important as well. Make sure you don't speak too slow or too fast.Eloquence will make you look more intelligent. "Voice is a profound difference between men and women, and it colors every human interaction we have," said David Puts, an anthropologist at Michigan State University.
Clive Owen has the sexy deep voice...
8. Breath
Check your breath please! This works for both men & women! Bad breath can kill it all! It can happen to everyone from time to time especially after a very garlicky meal or when you drink alcohol (yes) but this is something you can all take care of. Take the proper measures to have fresh breaths: mouth wash, chewing gum, mints, candy, etc. It's inexpensive & it may cost you a great candidate. Bad smell is a real turn off!
Our favorite chewing gum...!
9. Your walk
Something sexy about a man with a nice swag. When you will walk away, we will notice your walk. An assertive, calm & relax walk is always a plus. No slouching backs, straight shoulders. Walk with confidence.
10. Scent
No cologne is better than bad heavy stinky cologne. Beware of which cologne you choose! This is more subconscious but your smell is something that will be remembered. Women are subconsciously attracted to certain Pheromones. This is subjective to each individual. The rules of attraction, it turns out, seem sometimes to play out in our subconscious...Smell is one of them. Ever wonder why you're particularly attracted to someone? It may be the pheromones...
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Ladies, which is the first thing you will notice in men?
Happy Bday to the Sexiest Sagittarius Man out there: TREY SONGZ
Yes, ladies, Trey Songz born Tremaine Aldon Neverson is a SAGITTARIUS !!! I think it's pretty safe to say that he's a ladie's man. He calls himself "MR STEAL YOUR GIRL" & is pretty assertive about his skills in bed as he says she will think " HE INVENTED SEX"....HUUUMMM...
Gentlemen, watch ya girl when around TREY...LOL
In case some of you are wondering, Trey is SINGLE. He's been touring with Usher and we're pretty sure both bachelors are having a blast right now while touring....! Have fun guys !!! =)
HAPPY BDAY TO THE KING OF BABY-MAKING SONGS !!!! TREY SONGZ
Congrats to Trey Songz who launched is newest album PASSION, PAIN & PLEASURE on September 14th 2010 (same day as our NYFW show).
The Album is amazing. LOVE IT!! Trey has a sexy voice that transpires emotions & feelings...his songs of course are mostly all about love & SEX...but hey can we blame him? He's THE BEST at it !!! He's a SAGITTARIUS ! :)
"Failure is not an option" Trey Songz
"Success doesn't come easily. What was once a dream is now my reality" Trey Songz
Trey is a hard-working man. Talented, intelligent, confident and assertive, he has all the elements to stay on top for a looooong time. We wish him endless years of success & happiness!!!
Love ya TREY !!! HAPPY BDAY SWEETIE!!
One of our favorite songs on his new album is : "CAN'T BE FRIENDS"
We also love this club banger featuring the BOSS LADY Nicki Minaj: "Bottoms Up"
And one of our all time favorite love songs is "ALREADY TAKEN". The Music video features Trey's Ex-girlfriend Helen !! Think she's hot???
Trey has a great personality too. Watch his interview with Chelsea Handler. He loves to flirt !! "HOW'S YOUR PLUMBING?" ...lmao
Don't believe everything you see, even if it's Reality TV !!!
The truth about most Reality TV shows is that they are still scripted. Above all, don't EVER underestimate the power of editing! We have heard many (horrifying) stories on Reality TV stars who had their images completed distorted from reality from the TV show! Reality shows need juice, drama and chaos in order to captivate the most audience. What happens when they don't have enough DRAMA? They just created it!
DJ Sky Nellor is no stranger to this scenario. Beautiful, talented and bubbly Sky have had a terrible experience on BRAVO's show: The Millionaire Matchmaker; EPISODE 5.
Sky Nellor was born in Australia, and before being recognized for her abilities as a DJ, she was known for her flawless face and body. Sky appeared on the covers of several high profile international fashion magazines, including Spanish Vogue and Amica.
While posing for photographs and walking on runways, however, Sky never forgot her passion for music. Her knowledge of diverse music forms and styles would help her in her music career by allowing her to stand out from many club DJs.
Ironically, Nellor got her start as a DJ by taking on a dare. At a popular American club, her friends urged her to take her turn on the turntable. When she did, the crowd was literally stunned at her abilities to blend new and old into a signature sound that few DJs could equal.
Essentially, that was the start of her successful career. A few short months later, Nellor found herself in demand at high profile events hosted by Calvin Klein and Giorgio Armani. Since these first few appearances, she has worked as a DJ for celebs like Britney Spears, Outkast, Missy Elliott, and even former U.S. President Bill Clinton.
Today, Sky Nellor is one of the most sought after DJs ( and surely among the hottest) all around the world. GO GIRL!!! :)
SIMPLY
BEAUTIFUL
& BREATHTAKING
Here are Sky's words on her experience on the show posted by her on her facebook page:
Today Bravo posted a blog that I wrote about my experience on the show. Of course they had to edit it, just like they did with the episode... but here is the original, here is the truth.
When asked if I would consider going on Millionaire Matchmaker early
this year I happened to be surrounded by some of my dearest friends, who
all said: “DO IT”
They all thought I had nothing to lose and really needed a push when it
came to dating. Even my mother was excited to hear that I was making a
sincere effort to take the time to be more social.
Like me, ultimately she would love so much for me to get married and
produce some grandkids lol.
I went into this with an open mind and heart, and I believe that I was
tad naïve to say the least. Throughout the taping, I tried my best to do
whatever Patti suggested, but I had absolutely no connection with anyone
at the mixer and opted, after being yelled at by Patti, to go on a blind
date.
Again I thought I had nothing to lose! My mistake.
My situation was not that uncommon. How many times have you been
introduced to someone with the hopes of meeting your prince charming but
you guys just don’t “click"? This happens many a time in the real world
and normally ends with smile and send off of “it was nice meeting
you.”In reality television world, however, it does not. My real mundane
ending was turned into a more dramatic and salacious case of being a
“celebrity dater.’
Patti’s “diagnosis” could not be further than the truth, which is known
to my family and friends but with this episode publicly misrepresents me
and my values. To make matters worse, Patti and Destin rattle off names
of individuals with whom I have had no relationship to build their case
to support their symptoms of such dating illness.
I actually cried in disbelief after watching the episode; I would have
never in a million years thought that this would be the outcome; where a
show uses rumor and gossip as the basis of building (or tearing apart) a
character. I can understand having some fun and I was fully prepared to
poke fun at myself; but it just did not end up that way.
I have learned much from this experience and I now understand that with
reality television, you must be diligent and stay on top of how you are
being represented.
Most importantly, you’ll be happy to know that I haven’t given up
finding love, even in the most unconventional places and with the news
of my two good friends recent engagements, I know that love is just
around the corner for me."
Thank you to everyone for all your kind comments and support!
Sky Nellor struts the runway for SACHIKA spring 2011 on September 14th 2010
We had the pleasure to work with Sky on our spring 2011 collection fashion show during NYFW. Sky modeled our SAPHIR dress beautifully. She was very professional, quick-witted, fun and easy going from the fittings to the actual show day. SKY is NOTHING like the episode on Millionaire Matchmaker portrayed her!
It is clear to us when watching the episode that things have been edited in a way to justify the show's failure to match Sky. It is obvious that none of the men at the mixers were suitable and clicked with Sky. My sister and I are both single and we don't think we are picky but that does not mean we will like or automatically click with a bunch of selected men in a mixer.
LOVE and LIKING is far more complex than " you two are perfect for each other!".
And of course, when Sky honestly speaks up her mind and admits that none of the men are to her taste, the show have to categorize her falsely as a "serial celebrity dater".
Even with the editing, Sky was totally charming & soooo lovable!
Patti (wearing our SACHIKA jeweled jacket) and Sky Nellor
Sky, those who know you and care for you, know far more than what the show has to say! You are a beautiful woman with such charm, talent and life and you deserve equally special in love!
Here are the 22 questions that were asked to us on Tuesday 11/9/2010 via this blog.
We promised, we deliver...Enjoy!
1) Have you guys ever liked the same guy?
To-Tam: We did in High school, a few. But as adults, not that I know of..LOL. To-Nya: Only when we were young…and didn’t know anything about “ liking” ! lol
2) Have u ever considered modeling. you're gorgeous!
To-Tam: Thank you. No, we never particularly wanted to model. Besides, we are
too short. We loooove taking photos though & enjoy new experiences.
To-Nya: We have been asked to model many times and took the opportunities to learn and explore what we can do. We never aspired to be models though.
3) Would either of you ever get plastic surgery? If so, where?
To-Tam: As of now, plastic surgery does not appeal to me.
To-Nya:We don’t encourage anyone to get plastic surgery and we believe in natural beauty.
4) What do you think about men with long hair?
To-Tam: I have long hair & I'd prefer to be the only one with long hair in the couple but I do think Lenny Kravitz & David Beckham look great with long hair. It depends!
To-Nya: I think it depends on who….on the right person, yes, it can be very sexy!
5) I recently read somewhere that you two were born in Paris.... do you speak French? Vietnamese?
Yes we both speak fluently French, Vietnamese in addition to English. We learned Spanish in college so we know a little of it....it’s very similar to French. French is our first language.
6) What is the total of guys that you have dated each?
To-Tam: I had 3 boyfriends.
To-Nya: 1 boyfriend
7) What are you two wearing right now.. head to toe
8) Aside from yourself, which other designers to you girls love?
To-Tam: Versace, Zac Posen, Valentino
To-Nya: Zac Posen, Matthew Williamson, John Galliano
9) What is the biggest pet peeve that you girls have?
To-Tam: When people keep repeatedly saying POW!!..If your message is strong enough why add POW to it?
To-Nya: Stingy people
10) Do you know what's your inspiration for next season?
To-Tam: Not yet but it will be definitely be unexpected ! =)
To-Nya: I have an idea but nothing concrete….It's growing in my mind right now!
11) Whats your favorite perfume?
To-Tam: I don't have a favorite perfume. I usually like Vanilla & Fruity scents, not floral. Mine is Pacific Paradise from Escada
To-Nya: Betsey Johnson and Magnetism by Escada
12) How many boyfriends did you have?
To-Tam: 3
To-Nya: 1
13) Do you girls believe in marriage?
To-Tam: Yes absolutely! True love lasts forever.
To-Nya: Yes!!! I believe in true love and in soulmates.
14) How long has SACHIKA been running?
Since January 2009 so a year and 10 months
15) Will you guys come out with a less expensive brand in the future
To-Tam: I think eventually there will be several lines for different demographics, so yes. A more affordable line is in the plans.
To-Nya: Yes, definitely. The sky is the limit to what we can do and will do! Also, I'd love to design for H&M just like LANVIN is doing right now! hint*
16)Do you Ladies think you have Banging Bodies? What is the most embarrassing thing you Ladies ever got caught doing? & What is you Ladies' ideal kind of guy?
To-Tam: That's like 3 questions in one lol... I can work with what God gave me...:p Embarrassing moment: Our dad caught us measuring our bust (me & To-Nya) when we were 13 in the restroom. He bursted in laughter when he saw us both topless measuring out boobies lol! It was embarrassing. Lol. Ideal kind of guy: funny, adventurous, athletic, fun, ambitious, faithful, gentleman, caring, thoughtful, spontaneous...& much more!! lol
To-Nya: I think I am blessed to be the way I am for the amount of effort I put in. However, I am far from perfect and can be better! I am working on it..wink*
Embarrassing?When we were 8 or so, we were playing “doctor” in the backyard with my female neighbor and we were showing our private parts…lol…my neighbor’s parents caught us, bursted out of the house and told our parents! LOL…. Ideal man: Smart, ambitious, athletic, fun, adventurous, caring, loyal.
17) Which snack bar is your favorite?
To-Tam: Larabar Cherry Pie
To-Nya: Larabar Cherry Pie
18) How old are you?
To-Tam: Same age as To-Nya lol (Dec. 13th 1984)
To-Nya: Same age as To-Tam LOL
19) What's your favorite color?
To-Tam: Red
To-Nya: Jade
20) Who's your favorite artist?
To-Tam: Alicia Keys
To-Nya: Ne-Yo
21) Whats your dream vacation
To-Tam: Somewhere exotic, beach, sand, palm trees, clear water.
To-Nya: Right now, I’d love to go VietNam…I’ve never been there and it’s a shame!
22) Sidney W said...How many kids do you want with me?
